Family Tree Gal

Family Tree Gal
Carolyn Calton welcomes YOU!

Motto

In every home, frame a family tree to help strengthen your posterity.

Welcome !

I am committed to acknowledging connections throughout the generations--past, present, and future--and igniting a sense of extraordinary family purpose in individuals in THIS generation. Let me help you discover your "roots" as well as strengthen the "branches" of your family tree. If you have had painful experiences in your family line, then this is the blog for you! In fact, all of us will see that as we strengthen ourselves, we strenthen our entire FAMILY TREE through the power of our positive influence.

Thursday, May 17, 2012

Great Quote by Chris Brady


“Our privileges are not for our pleasure, but for our purpose.” ~Chris Brady

I feel fortunate to have heard Chris Brady speak last night. He is the #11 Personal Development leader in the WORLD. As we strive to "live mindfully in the present" (one of the goals of Family Tree Quest), let us live "on purpose", so that those we love will have the most benefit as we share the light of our influence to change some of the generational junk still hanging around and keep the beauties and wisdom we can glean from our past.

What if you could create the LIFE you've always dreamed of?  Well, we can!  We are creators (through the thoughts we think and the decisions we make), and we aren't happy unless we're  making conscious, mindful choices and making decisions in alignment with our purpose for being here and making a contribution. 




I love to have fun and rest and relax.  Everybody needs some of that.  Yet mindfully contributing to the important relationships in life is what brings me the most JOY!

Take charge of our own life, and live it well.

Friday, May 11, 2012

New Granddaughter



Hello everyone.   

We've had a new, darling granddaughter.

Looking forward to Mother's day.  How about you?

My mother has passed on.  Miss her every Mothers day, however.  I do feel fortunate to have some really good memories and to have felt of her loving kindness all the days of my life.

If you're interested, check out my Examiner article. Genealogy and Family History Resources at Your Fingertips.    http://exm.nr/IOwiTs   (I put in a plug for GeneaBloggers along with others.)

Monday, April 2, 2012

A Thief and Things of Real Value

Interesting.  My husband opened a birthday card from his mother.  There was supposed to be a precious coin (valuable) inside, along with his birthday check to buy a gift.  The coin was missing--the envelope sealed tightly (probably by the thief who took the coin out).  The impression of the coin was still on the envelope.  Bless his heart, the thing of most value to my husband was the sentiment his mother chose to express through the message on the card (which was not a common sentiment for her to express).  It was of more value than anything else. 

When we die, we can take the love (and the influence of that love) with us, but NOT the money.

Makes me ponder the thought that my own father could not remember his dad ever giving him a hug or telling him he loved him.  (Food for thought).  My dad, however, was one of the most loving men I've EVER known.  Kind, thoughtful, and fun-loving--a real tease.  We make our own choices, regardless of our circumstances.  My dad also had the influence of his mother--a woman with spunk, homespun charm and twinkling eyes (that went right along with her sense of humor).

Also, since Easter is next Sunday, this evokes the thought that it was a thief who was on the cross next to the cross of Jesus, to whom Jesus spoke.  He took on the sins of everyone--including thieves, while providing the opportunity for all of us to make things right with God, our Heavenly Father, IF we would sincerely ask forgiveness and change our ways to follow His teachings.  Reminds me that to HOLD on to grudges, disappointments and anger only injures US and keeps us separate from having a fulness of joy and happiness.

If we want to be forgiven, we must forgive.

Comments?

Monday, January 16, 2012

52 Weeks to Abundant Genealogy Series


Welcome to those who are visiting my blog after clicking the link on my Examiner articles. I hope you'll explore the tabs above and see how this blog can best serve your needs for connecting generations and helping you write your own family history.  Don't forget to click the link at the top right if you're interested in getting a download link for a FREE family tree.

For my other friends, see the first 3 weeks of entries in Amy Coffin's new series "52 Weeks to Abundant Genealogy" by clicking here.

Sunday, December 25, 2011

Monday, December 12, 2011

End of Year Posts


Just to let you know, I've posted the last of 2011's personal history prompts in my Examiner articleCLICK HERE to check it out.  Many thanks to Amy Coffin for authoring this series and to Thomas MacEntee at GeneaBloggers for hosting it on his site.

I hope to be launching some new programs and CDs this coming year dealing with healing the pain of dysfunction, heartbreak and stress in families.  For anyone interested in creating positive change in their family line, make sure to JOIN THE QUEST at Family Tree Quest .  When you leave your email, I will mail you a link for the free family tree I designed.  It is perfect for all families--even blended (step) families and single parents.

Also, don't forget to check out lots of heritage-friendly gift ideas by CLICKING HERE.



I hope you enjoy all your holiday celebrations and get-togethers.  I love the sights, sounds and smells of this time of the year!
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Disclosure of Material Connection: I have not received any compensation from Amy Coffin or GeneaBloggers for writing about the 52 Weeks to Better Genealogy and History series. I am listed on the GeneaBloggers Blog Roll because I find it to be a valuable, shared community resource. I am founder of Family Tree Quest [dot] com.

Friday, December 2, 2011

Christmas Cards?


I love making connections with old friends at Christmas.  Even tho others have dropped the tradition of sending Christmas Cards, it's one thing I still value.  The expense, however was getting more than I could bear.  I would send a MINIMUM of 75 cards.

Last year, I decided to send most of my cards via American Greetings.
I've also loved receiving photo cards via Smilebox.

I recommend them both.  The free options are nice, but I finally subscribed to American Greetings.  They let me send cards all year for a VERY low price. (I even post birthday greetings to Facebook and love the convenience).

Hope to get my "cards" out this weekend.  How about you?

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OTHER CARD SOURCES I FIND INTRIGUING:

Cardstore.com

Galison, Mudpuppy and HOLIDAY (cards at HOLIDAY).
Private Label designs custom products for your business, non-profit or special event.


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Disclosure of Material connection:  As Founder of Family Tree Quest [dot] com, American Greetings, Smilebox, Cardstore and Galison/Mudpuppy are my affiliates.