Family Tree Gal

Family Tree Gal
Carolyn Calton welcomes YOU!

Motto

In every home, frame a family tree to help strengthen your posterity.

Welcome !

I am committed to acknowledging connections throughout the generations--past, present, and future--and igniting a sense of extraordinary family purpose in individuals in THIS generation. Let me help you discover your "roots" as well as strengthen the "branches" of your family tree. If you have had painful experiences in your family line, then this is the blog for you! In fact, all of us will see that as we strengthen ourselves, we strenthen our entire FAMILY TREE through the power of our positive influence.

Tuesday, December 1, 2015

Advent Calendar of Chrismas Memories: Christmas Trees



Each Year, Geneabloggers hosts an Advent Calendar of Christmas Memories (ACCM) 

Today's topic is Christmas Trees.


When I was a little girl, Christmas celebrations at our home were fairly simple.  I was the only child in our family, yet Christmas was lots of fun because my best friend lived right around the block.

We’d display a tree in our living room.  My mom liked flocked trees, so some evening after Thanksgiving, we’d often we’d go to the local Christmas Tree Lot and pick out and purchase a fresh, green tree as a family.  I was really thrilled to dart in and out of the isles of trees, and loved the smell of the sawdust that covered the ground.  My dad would often buy lots of flocking spray, and flock our tree in the backyard so it would look like snow.  What a hassle!  I’m glad that they just bought a flocked tree when I was older.  I loved the evergreen smell, and it didn’t seem like Christmas as much at first when they got an artificial green tree when I was in my twenties.

In those early years, most people would hang silver tinsel all over their trees.  I didn’t miss it much when we stopped doing that.  My mother loved to go shopping in the malls.  She loved the elegant trees she saw in the store windows and inside the stores.  She retired the old ornaments and bought all turquoise blue, and turquoise blue on a flocked tree was absolutely beautiful.

When I was away at college, and my parents were going to bring out the artificial tree, I was very surprised and also grateful that my boyfriend bought a fresh tree for us to enjoy when I came home to Long Beach, CA on break from school.

When I was first married, the budget was extremely tight.  We managed to buy a fresh tree, but the ornaments were all handmade.

After having children, we had all sorts of trees, usually fresh and green with many different types of decorations each year.

When I lived in Mesa and the children were older, we bought an artificial tree and decorated with red and gold balls, ribbons, garland and had a star on the top—representing the star of Bethlehem.

Reflecting on our Christmas Tree Tradition has been quite a walk down memory lane.  In 2013, I downsized, and now enjoy the trees in the homes of my children at Christmastime.  I take delight in the eyes of my grandchildren as they have now begun making memories of their own.


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Many thanks to Thomas MacEntee for hosting these Christmas memory prompts.  The Advent Calendar of Christmas Memories (ACCM) allows you to share your family’s holiday history twenty-four different ways during December! Learn more at 
http://adventcalendar.geneabloggers.com.  Maybe you’d like to share your family history, too.


Here's 3 simple tools I use to create my permanent personal history:



1)  I post a memory to my blog.  I copy the contents I posted there, then open my Personal Historian Software and paste my words there for my permanent Personal History records.



2)  I also enjoy using my Heritage Collector Suite for organizing my old-time photos as well as  current photos for quick retrieval and creating gifts.



 3)  And I love, love, love using my Flip-pal mobile scanner for scanning my old photos to a memory card and getting them on to the computer and into Heritage Collector Suite.  My grandchildren love using the Flip-pal, too.  They couldn't wait for Grandma to pay them to use the Flip-pal to help her "catch up" with the 20 years of old photos that had been stored in a box. And I was happy to have my memories consolidated more quickly than if I waited to do it myself or spent hours standing at a traditional scanner. (The Flip-pal can be held on your lap.)



Preserving my personal and family history has never been easier!  Have fun preserving yours.

Your comments are welcomed under the reference to this post at www.facebook.com/familytreegal.
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Note: Carolyn Calton, author of JOURNALriffic, will be offering FREE Ten Minute Treasure Telecalls in 2016.  Each week, using the principles outlined in JOURNALriffic, we will talk about a natural law/principle that will help you revitalize your inner worth and strengthen your meaningful relationships.  Join us for these encouraging calls by signing up for Early Bird Updates. If you can’t make it at the time of the call, the link will be emailed to you and the recording will be available for a limited time.  Click here for more information.

Connect with Carolyn at:

www.FamilyTreeQuest.com
(Connecting generations through Family History)

www.CarolynCalton.com    (Spiritual messages of hope and INspiration)
www.LiahonaLightAcademy.com (INner worth and Relationship improvement,
Carolyn is CEO of Dr. Ron Newsom’s Liahona Light Institute)


www.twitter.com/familytreegal

www.facebook.com/familytreegal
www.linkedin.com/in/carolyncalton

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Disclosure of Material Connection: in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising,” I am disclosing that I am an affiliate of Life Story Productions (Heritage Collector Suite) and Flip-pal mobile scanner.  The small commission I make on affiliate sales helps me continue my work, both online and offline. Thank you for using these links when making purchases. Lori Wiser is an affiliate of Amazon (Personal Historian Software and JOURNALriffic). 

Monday, July 28, 2014

4 Generations of Adoption



My mother was an adoptive mother, I am an adopted child, my daughter is a birth mother and her son was recently adopted.

 If you'd like to read about our experience with open adoption, please click the link.



Thursday, January 16, 2014

F* R* E* E* Book Give-away


Hello everyone,

Moving to UT has had it's challenges, but one of my delights in moving here has been to associate with Jennifer Jones Smith.  We have attended a couple family-oriented conferences together, and it's so nice to have a delightful, new professional friend and colleague.

I want to tell you about her new, soon-to-be-released book, 12 Weeks to Greater Peace, Joy and Love in your Family and let you in on how you can get your F * R * E* E* copy by participating in this Give-away
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ABOUT THE BOOK:

12 Weeks to Greater Peace, Joy and Love is a great family guidebook that will head you in the right direction if your desire is to  transform challenging relationships into loving ones.

Jennifer's book is laced with poignant stories, motivating quotes and poems that make a point, so it is not dull reading. (I even contributed to the chapter in Week 12- Fortifying Defenses.)

Yet, because I work with TODAY's ChangeMakers (men and women who do not give up on creating positive change in themselves, their families and family lines--in spite of obstacles), I always ask myself when reading a book, “Is it relevant TODAY?" 

I knew my part was relevant because, in my contribution, I talk candidly about examining our traditions in the light of eliminating those that are unhealthy.  "Out With the Bad.  In With the Good". TODAY's ChangeMakers know that if our traditions are uplifting and edifying, we tend to feel strengthened and view the family as important, loving, and a place we want to be. If our traditions are full of put-downs, sarcasm, and prejudices, we have little or no desire to participate in them again, or we begin to pass on unhealthy traditions to new generations because of the modeling in our own family of origin.

So now the book is complete and ready to launch soon, and the answer to the question, "Is it relevant TODAY?" is "YES".  

Jennifer  does a masterful job of including timely advice, with chapters on “The War at Home” and “Who’s Breaking In and Stealing”. I appreciated that she doesn’t skirt the issues of addictions and bad habits, but addresses them head-on.

With over twenty-seven years’ experience in marriage, parenting and child development,  Jennifer also offers simple, yet profound wisdom on these essential topics:

* Empower yourself with greater self-love, self-compassion and confidence.
   (Remember peace on earth and in the family begins with “me.”)
* Infuse love, joy and respect into your marriage and family relationships.
* Increase harmony among your children and success with chores and homework.
* Transform the feeling in your home by building unity with an uplifting environment.

If you think owning your own copy of 12 Weeks to Greater Peace, Joy and Love  would benefit you and your family,


ENTER THIS GIVE-AWAY !

The winner will be chosen at random on February 1, 2014 and will be notified by email. Winner must respond by February 7, 2014 to claim the book, and be sure to include a mailing address !

To enter the give-away (US residents only), please do these THREE things:
1)  The way I will know you entered is when you leave your name and email on my website www.FamilyTreeQuest.com in the box at the top right of the page that reads JOIN the QUEST.  In the space that says "Nice to Know", type the words BOOK GIVE-AWAY.  You will then automatically receive a link to download a free 8" x 10" 2-generation family tree print as my automatic gift to you for entering.  (If you've already JOINED the QUEST, send an email to carolyn@familytreequest.com letting me know you want to enter the giveaway..)
2)     Please make a comment in the comment section below, stating one of your biggest challenges as a parent or member of your family line and what you have done (or need to know) to meet the challenge.


3)  Get sneak peeks about this book, download 4 Empower Your Family surveys, learn about the $160 in bonuses available on launch day, and be the first to know when "12 Weeks to Greater Peace, Joy & Love in Your Family" is available by visiting http://myheartfelthealing.com/love and leave your name and email in the box (in the body of the main text) that says YES! Send Me the Surveys...

It is my hope that you WILL experience more peace, joy and love TODAY and everyday.

To your happiness,
Carolyn

P.S. One of the bonuses will be an incredible Telesummit featuring 6 experts addressing issues and challenges that families are facing.
Some of the topics for the Whole Heart Family Telesummit are:
*Teaching Children Self-Government through Positive Guidance
*Life is a Journey - Gratitude and Forgiveness
*Healing Yourself & Your Family
*Being an Epic Lover to Your Spouse
*Marriage on Purpose: 4 Keys to Success
*Porn Addiction: There is Hope
The Telesummit experts will share valuable tips, stories and gifts to empower your family with greater peace, joy and love.

It's IMPORTANT and required to go to this link AFTER purchasing your book on Amazon to CLAIM YOUR BONUSES on February 5th, 2014.
http://myheartfelthealing.com/bonus

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Note: Carolyn Calton (formerly Carolyn Murphy) is founder of Family Tree Quest  and co-founder of Healing Your Family.  She writes messages of INspiration to TODAY's ChangeMakers™--people who refuse to give up on creating a bright and beautiful future

for themselves, their families and family lines. She knows that "Healing Yourself IS the way to Heal Your Family and Family Line" and believes in each individual doing their best to return to well-being (healing) at all levels:  physical/mental, social/emotional, and spiritual. 

You can also find her at:
www.CarolynCalton.com
    (Heaven's Whisper by Carolyn Calton--God-centered messages of INspiration.)
www.twitter.com/familytreegal
www.facebook.com/familytreegal
www.linkedin.com/in/carolyncalton
www.facebook.com/groups/tcmmovement/  (NEW.  Please join for updates and information for all of TODAY's ChangeMakers)
www.facebook.com/todayschangemakers   (TODAY's ChangeMaker MOMS Who Make a Difference--for spiritually-centered or spiritually seeking MOMs)
This site is for informational and educational purposes only.  I am happy to provide the information.  Each individual is responsible for what they do with the information.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received a digital download of Jennifer Jones Smith's book for purposes of this review.  I do not get paid by her for writing this review or promoting her book. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR,
Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”